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Just a quick rant: On a current hullabaloo between Kris Aquino and James Yap

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To my dear regalreaders, you may try as well reading the following links from PEP.ph:

> http://www.pep.ph/news/37984/james-yaprsquos-legal-counsel-to-kris-aquino-ldquoshe-does-not-have-monopoly-of-affectionrdquo-asks-public-to-give-couple-privacy-to-talk-things-out

> http://www.pep.ph/news/37996/makati-rtc-junks-james-yap39s-petition-for-hold-departure-order-against-ex-wife-kris-aquino-and-son-bimby

> http://www.pep.ph/news/37981/part-1-kris-aquino-i-felt-violated-as-a-woman

> http://www.pep.ph/news/37982/part-2-kris-aquino-resigns-from-abs-cbn-shows-denies-rift-with-james-yap-was-triggered-by-adoption-papers-of-bimby

> http://www.pep.ph/news/37964/pep-exclusive-first-of-3-parts-james-yap-on-why-he-will-go-up-against-ppo-filed-by-kris-aquino-ldquoayokong-sabihin-ng-anak-ko-na-kinukuha-siya-sa-akin-tapos-di-ko-siya-ipinaglabanrdquo/1/3
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Well, it’s up to you on whom you are going to believe.

In my case, I don’t have to read all the said articles because I could easily predict that no one will surely believe with ‘Krazy’ Aquino.

“I felt violated as a woman”? “Violated as a woman” mo mukha mo Tetay!

Yeah, March is a women’s month, and with Kris Aquino’s statement, I felt our womanhood has been slapped. She has NO fucking right to say anything feministic. Her entirety of her image is NOT WOMEN EMPOWERING AT! ALL! First off, it is no secret to her how nagging bitch she is, that she is so desperate towards a man that in the end, she will create all smear campaigns against them. When she is a TV host, all she does is to interrupt a guest (how rude naman!). She even announces to the world that she used to be contacted with STD, as well as how often she had sex with Joey each day on National TV, at how she wanted to take Alvin Patrimonio from his wife Cindy Conwi (at that time prior to eloping with Philip Salvador), at how she creates controversies so much that her entire clan’s name is at stake as well as traumatizing her children. What’s even disturbing is the way she denied James the rights to see Bimby.

Walang sinumang matinong ina ang gagawa nang ganun, unless sobrang tarantado talaga ang lalaki. Looks can be deceiving but I don’t think James is toooo tarantado enough to be Bimby’s father. In fact, everytime that Kris keeps on yakking and yakking on National TV about James, it was James who is so silent. Granted, James may have married Kris Aquino because of wealth, pero sino naman ang namanhikan? Si babae pa ang namanhikan sa pamilya ng lalaki komo’t mayaman siya. Ganun siya ka-desperate magka-jowa.

Empowering ba ang matatawag mo sa babaeng nagpapakagago sa lalaki, na kapag siya ang kinalagan, mag-bi-bitch out on National TV?  Empowering ba ang maging spoiled brat? Empowering ba ang magsama-samaan ng ugali? Empowering ba ‘yung maghahatak ka ng mga kapatid mo para supportahan ka para bweltahan ang kalaban mo? Higit sa lahat, empowering ba yung ipangalandakan ang katangahan mo sa pag-ibig and worse, kapag napabalitang nambababae asawa mo, hinihiya mo on National TV?

Seriously, I think Lisa Masa of Gabriela is even facepalming on her seat when she is reading about Kris Aquino. ‘Krazy’ is not worthy to be protected. Every woman needs to be protected, but in the case of ‘Krazy’, protection will all be going to waste.

Look what’s going on with Josh Salvador, after she denied Philip Salvador of rights as a father to this son. Not only he has gone special child, everything went fucked up kasi bine-baby pa eh. Hindi malayong magiging ganyan si Bimby. Worse, tama bang kwentuhan mo ang 5-year old mong anak ng mga kadramahan mo sa buhay?

Netizens in PEP is right. Gabby Concepcion used to be such an asshole towards Sharon Cuneta, but she was not like denying Gabby of rights as being a father to KC Concepcion. Sharon Cuneta also comes from political family just like Kris Aquino, just that despite having her inner bitch inside, she knows how to be a diva in a manner that she will be able to maintain the respect that people are giving her. A diva in her own right, pero marunong makisama. Sharon Cuneta is not that talented (according to my mom’s sources) at the time she began her career in entertainment industry, but through hardwork, great attitude, excellent camaraderie towards fans and non-fans alike, her overall growth never-ends. She became famous NOT for bragging the Cuneta clan and nonsensical attention/famewhoring, but how she handled her life, her career, and her being a mother which happened to be really excellent.

I understand that Sharon Cuneta will not like being compared to Kris Aquino, but if you are going to check the point of some readers there, it’s about being a ‘mentally stable’ mother. Whining all about the shenanigans you experienced from your husband, not doing anything that will make you grow and be mature enough is not an empowerment as well. There is a sheer difference between empowering yourself as a woman and being an all-out bitch. Well, just giving Kris Aquino a hell-load of idea what should be a ‘decent’ mom is, and I am not even a mom.

And don’t get me started at how ‘Krazy’ handles her relationships with men. There was even a rumor that my mom got from a source that Kris wants another taste of meat. ‘Di ba mga regalreaders? Nung naghiwalay na ng tuluyan sina Kris at James, biglang na-chika si Kris sa anak ni Jejomar Binay? So meaning to say, na kahit anak ni Jejomar Binay lalandiin pa ni Kris?

Hindi malayong nagawa ni Kris ‘yun kay Joey Marquez. There was even a rumor spread on PEP from a certain netizen that the STD that Kris got was from an another guy, not from Joey. When she and Joey had a check-up at MMC, it’s not about the STD, but to abort a baby supposed to be courtesy of Joey Marquez.

Very bad. Very…very…very…bad!

Another thing, if you are going to check Celebrity Urban Legend section of PEx, there was a rumor that Kris Aquino is a nymphomaniac. Even a certain PEP commenter said that. Three times a day kay Joey, three times a day din kay James. Kaya nung kelangan munang lumayo ni James, nagmamarakulyo na naman ang luka-luka. Sorry Dear, pero ang lalaki, despite being babaero in nature, they are not as tough as a women when it comes to sex act, na kapag maka-milyong rounds pa si babae, si lalaki hinang-hina na. Idagdag mo pa na sports person si James, kaya dapat hindi nanghihina sa oras ng laro.

I even had an ex-colleague who proved James Yap’s niceness and Kris Aquino’s bitchiness. Nung binyag ng anak ng kaibigan ng katrabaho ko, andun si James Yap (kumpare nila kasi si James, eh). Kung si James nakakapagbigay, si Kris daw hindi lumalabas ng van, lalo na nung nagta-tantrum si Bimby. Si Kris, magbibigay lang daw iyan kapag pasko. Yun daw ang sabi ng Feng Shui (di nga? tologoooo?????). Baka raw malasin si Tetay.

Ang bobo lang ng mga tao kung maniniwala pa sila sa mga statements ni Kris Aquino. Meaning to say, they are too blind enough to see the wrong attitudes Kris Aquino has, as well as how she handles herself towards a guy. I am sure they were not able to see kung gaano ka-gustong agawin ni Kris si Alvin kay Cindy.

You may also try as well taking a cue from bashing101:

Nakakaawa actually si James Yap. I mean come on, sure he’s not hot, but he’s a baller, and to most women, that’s hot enough. I’m sure madaming babae yan na kinakalantaran no. And I actually believe that woman who allegedly had sexual relations with him.

Paano ba naman, to be locked up in a house with Kris? To endure her irritating, whining, high pitched pathetic excuse for a voice? Papatuyuin ko na lang ang mga mata ko with a hair dryer. I’m sure under si James kay Kris no. Sa english pa lang, talo na si James eh. I don’t think he’d get into any argument with her. “Yes” lang lagi ang sagot nya.

There must be a reason why James even married her in the first place. Is it the money? Grammar lessons? Maybe she’s a fireball in bed. Maybe Kris’s caterwauling actually gets him off.

I guess, si Kris ang may gusto kay James, hindi si James ang may gusto. James is of the same age as I do, just like he is older than me by four months and though he is already an adult, he was still too young for marriage, lalo pa sa tulad ni Kris Aquino. What Kris Aquino might have overlooked is that, the age 20-25 is still on experimental stage in sex and relationships. Pinagdaanan ko na ‘yan eh. That is also the age na naging mapusok ako. And James Yap hails from a simple family in Negros Occidental, so being with someone hailing from elite clan is too big for him to handle.

You have known me for speaking about about women empowerment, but in the case of a simple person marrying a powerful elite is too much to handle. Men are not even exempted from this. If a simple woman suffers the hugeness of marrying someone from a powerful clan, then that will be the same as men. And please, hasty generalization of simple men marrying rich women as gold-diggers is just plain retarded. If men are capable of gold-digging, then what about women coming from not-so-well-off family?

The notion ‘Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus’ is not always applicable.

Sa tulad ni Kris Aquino, may mag-jo-jowa pa diyan? Kahit pa si Prince Harry pa ang jumowa diyan, mangangawawa iyan lalo na kung magngangalngal si Tetay on National TV. Hindi rin katwiran ang EXTRAORDINARY INTELLIGENCE kaya na-the-threaten ang lalaki. No matter extraordinarily intelligent you are, as long as you are not overbearing enough and knows to recognize the needs of men as well and you know how to handle yourself in private and public, you will not have a hard time marrying a guy.

Look at Lea Salonga. It took a long time before she could marry, but at least she got married a year earlier than Kris Aquino and having a happy married and family life up to now. Most ignoramus people (sorry, but I have to call them ignoramus for very valid reasons) accuse Lea Salonga for being all-out arrogant—especially when criticizing Anne Curtis and Christine Bersola—-but if you are going to analyze what Lea Salonga has been through, you will understand her why. Sure, her family may not be as powerful as Krazy’s, but her father is a military man (now you can see all the discipline and toughness she has the way she handles her career). She earned her popularity through constant training mainly in music and theater, so much it eventually lead her to her casting in Miss Saigon, earning Tony Awards, singing for Disney soundtracks, the rest is history. She is known to be too intelligent, too english-speaking and too domineering to handle, but why she was able to have someone like Robert Chien as her husband? I know, Lea won’t like being compared to someone cheaper than her, but still, the point is, how you will be able to maintain self-respect while being a ‘too intelligent’ and ‘domineering’.

You can be like Blair Waldorf while not losing your self-respect and keeping your attitude in check. Anyway, Kris is nowhere near to Blair Waldorf.

Man! I guess I have said enough. Hate to make it long, but simply to give you my POV on the Kris-James brouhaha.

Surely, my sympathy goes to James Yap.

Again, looks can be deceiving. However, the way I observe James Yap’s facial features and tone of his voice, I don’t think he will be so asshole to gold-diggin’ on Kris Aquino and attempt to sexually violate her in front of Bimby. James Yap has gone through a lot of hell because of Kris Aquino, yet I can see in him his sanity is too durable enough to be broken down.



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